Private coaching for women entrepreneurs
Your business and life look good on paper.
But there’s still that one thing that’s driving you nuts…
That goal or dream you can’t seem to achieve.
Like breaking through that income ceiling that seems to be indestructible.
Or that recurring issue that you can’t seem to permanently fix.
Like always over-giving and over-delivering, even when you don’t want to.
You’ve done everything you could think of already:
Coaches. Masterminds. Business building programs. Mindset work. Energy healings.
You can easily speak in front of 2000 people and got your robot vacuum cleaner working even though the instructions were in every language except one you understood.
But this one thing, whatever yours is exactly?
You. Just. Can’t. Get. A. Handle. On. It.
It frustrates you to no end.
Why can’t you get this sorted?
You think about it while blowdrying your hair (or that of your chihuahua).
You’re constantly, unconsciously, scanning for new strategies that might fix what still feels off.
It’s become the annoying soundtrack of your life.
Which is now almost more annoying than the issue itself.
How great would it be if that one thing would finally fall into place?
Big decisions would simply be clear to you, without overthinking them twelve nights in a row between 2 and 4 am. Instead, you sleep like a baby.
You could sit down for dinner and deeply enjoy the exquisite taste of the first asparagus of the season. Instead of not tasting much at all, because your Internal Auditor was too busy measuring all the ways you fell short that day.
The relief you’d feel … you can almost touch it.
But how could it fall into place?
And is it really possible after everything you’ve tried already?
Yes.
No matter what you’ve tried before or how long you’ve been trying.
No matter what your dream or recurring issue is.
The mechanics are always the same.
Because it’s not the issue that keeps you stuck.
It’s the constant attempt to understand, analyze, solve, manage, achieve, or fix it.
That’s the loop that keeps you running in circles without ever arriving where you want to be.
And how you get out of that?
By dropping the eternal quest for solutions, meaning, and answers.
The moment you stop seeking …
what you seek can find you.
(And you see that it was so much closer than you think …)
That's what changes when you work with me.
And it doesn't look like anything you've tried before.
It's not about improving your mindset.
We don't change thoughts or replace beliefs.
We don't set goals.
And you don't have to become a better version of yourself.
Because those are the exact things that keep that one thing out of reach and create new issues.
Instead, you’ll discover an entirely new and effortless way of seeing and being that finally resolves that one thing.
A way that has nothing to do with understanding or managing it better.
It happens through something most people completely overlook: where your attention goes.
Instead of focusing on your thoughts about the issue, you shift your attention to the space underneath them.
From there:
Mental noise quiets down.
Decisions become simple.
You work without needing to kick your ass or give yourself pep-talks.
Pressure and tension dissolve.
That one thing either falls into place… or it simply stops bothering you.
Either way, you’re free.
Even when you’re still busy.
Even when old or new issues poke their head above the horizon.
Problems may still arise, but your relationship to them is radically different.
You no longer spiral into panic mode, overthinking every detail day and night.
In the midst of chaos, your mind stays clear.
You just ... deal with it.
And then it's gone.
How I know this works?
Because I've been where you are.
For me, that one thing that drove me up the wall at times was money. It would go well for a while and bam … worries and stress came roaring back.
I tried absolutely everything to fix it:
Changing my business model, working with affirmations, making stellar business plans (I never stuck to), journaling my ass off and learning 237 ways to shift subconscious beliefs. (More or less.) (Probably less.)
Everything worked for a while.
But never permanently.
Even when money was there, I couldn't deeply relax.
There was always a voice whispering that money might run out one day.
Until, finally, everything changed.
I found the sense of security and trust that I’d always be okay, no matter what.
I found peace in the midst of those recurring worries.
And the nagging sense that something was still missing, still not right, dissolved.
How?
It didn’t come from finding a secret tool or manifesting trick.
It came from dropping the whole shebang:
The seeking, fixing, hoping, crashing, and repeating that same cycle again. And again.
I stepped out of it.
I stopped trying to control my thoughts, my results, and life.
Instead, I looked directly at the urge to control. At the thoughts, the stories, the beliefs … without trying to change or delete them.
I realized that thoughts and feelings simply arose — I wasn’t creating them. They just came. And left.
The thoughts I spent so long to change no longer had a hold on me.
And underneath that inner noise was already that deep, unshakable peace, freedom and ease I’d been looking for.
And nothing fell apart.
Nothing went to shit when I stopped trying to control my life (and myself.)
I didn’t end up broke when I stopped trying to fix the money stress.
I felt so much lighter.
Like I put down a backpack filled with guilt, worries, and heavy books I didn’t even want to read.
Money stuff still appears every now and then.
But it’s no longer a problem.
And it always solves itself without any force or stress.
This is the shift my clients experience, too — regardless of what your 'one thing' is.
Your issue may be different from mine or any of the examples I mention on this page.
It doesn’t matter.
The mechanics are always the same.
Because it’s not the issue that keeps you stuck.
It’s the constant attempt to solve it.
“My business didn't thrive, and the work I was doing didn't make me happy. I'd been trying to break through that, even with the help of other coaches, for about 8 years.
But nothing worked.
Until I started to work with Brigitte.”
Petra Jungblut
What changes when we work together
The most important shift you’ll experience is that this one thing that kept eluding you falls away.
Somehow you write that book, bust through that income ceiling, or drop those last 15 pounds you haven’t been able to shed for 13 years.
You’ve reached that goal without stress or overthinking it twelve ways from Tuesday.
Or … it no longer bothers you. At all.
You don’t understand how, but it just became a neutral thing.
You see that the biggest problem was never the problem itself.
It was the exhaustion of trying to manage, control or fix it.
It was the bone-tiredness of being at war with yourself.
And also ...
You worry so much less in general.
No one liked your carefully crafted Reel yet? Whatever.
A client said ‘no’ or your launch flopped? Ah well.
It may still sting or hurt.
But it no longer makes you doubt every decision you made since fourth grade for a year.
You’re not constantly trying to manage life / your thoughts / the way your belly flops over the edge of your pants.
You feel looser and more at peace in general.
The tension in your shoulders drops.
Your constant frown softens.
You find yourself breathing deeper and slower without having to remind yourself of that.
Problems no longer feel overwhelming or urgent.
You shrug, knowing that solutions always come. Usually out of the blue, when you’re daydreaming during lunch.
Business and life get easier.
And no, you won’t turn into a lazy, couch-sitting, chips munching zombie who does nothing but watch Friends reruns all day.
You’ll still do what needs doing, just without the accompanying pep-talks, ass-kicking or fourth-guessing.
You wake up, and instead of instantly running through today’s to-do list, you sip your tea while staring at the pink and orange clouds the sun is almost breaking through.
Your mind is quieter. Your body is more relaxed. There’s no need to force yourself or overthink what you should be doing. You trust yourself to do what needs doing when it needs doing.
You can simply be where you are, without constantly feeling like you should be somewhere else.
You stop fighting with yourself.
And you feel more ‘you’ and do things more your way than ever.
"I feel a deep, unshakable peace now, no matter what happens.
I no longer worry about anything. Life is effortless. Business is easy.
And even when something shitty happens, I still feel calm and at peace because I deeply know and trust that everything is okay.”
~ B.
How we work together
We work together for either 3 months or 6 months. We decide before we start.
Each month we meet twice, on Zoom.
In between calls you get ongoing support via the free Voxer app.
You don’t have to wait for your next call to share or ask what’s on your mind. You’re supported throughout the whole time we work together.
I only work with a handful of private clients.
Why 3 months or more?
Because getting an insight or a big fat breakthrough can happen in a split second.
But then your kid comes home with lice, your cat vomits all over your brand new laptop and the bank accidentally cancels your credit card. And suddenly, you’re stressing like no tomorrow again.
I want to be there for you in the moments it actually matters, including those vomit-lice moments, so you can get real and lasting changes.
This is for you if:
✔️ You're successful on paper but there’s still that one thing that nags you.
✔️ You want to get that one thing fixed and gone and done with …
✔️ ... and you’ve run out of ideas on how to do that.
This is NOT for you if:
❌ You’re in crisis and need immediate practical support.
❌ You want a step-by-step system.
❌ You’re looking for a bargain and want a quick fix.
“It felt scary to invest so much in myself at first, but it was immediately worth it.”
Simone Brockhuis
The next step
If you’re ready to finally kick that one thing to the curb, apply for a private conversation.
No pitch or "but wait, there's more."
Just a conversation to see if this is the right fit for you.
You don’t need to prepare anything. I've heard "I don't even know where to start" more often than I've bought new socks.
And I bought a lot of socks.
A short form will pop up where you fill in your name, email, and anything you'd like to share before we meet. That's all.
I'll get back to you within 2 business days to schedule our chat.
What clients say:
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“I feel a deep, unshakable peace now, no matter what happens.
I no longer worry about anything.
Life is effortless.
Business is easy.
And even when something shitty happens,
I still feel calm and at peace because I deeply know and trust that everything is okay."
~ B.
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"The coaching has been life changing for me.
Everything is different, and I’m deeply grateful.
I can’t describe how gifted Brigitte is.
Her intuition is laser-sharp, and she knows exactly what you need to create deep and lasting transformation.
Working with Brigitte is magical and sublime!"
Marieke Kamerbeek
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"Life is so much brighter now.
I didn't know this level of ease was even possible!"
~ M.
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“Working with Brigitte is uplifting.
I felt like she had my back the entire time we worked together, I could ask her anything and she was always there for me.”
Simone Brockhuis
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“Wow.
Just ... wow.
No words can describe how much lighter and brighter life feels now.
This is what I've been looking for my whole life.
Forever grateful.”
~ S.
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“I am living a completely different life now. And it keeps growing and evolving.
Brigitte has helped me step into a new reality of magnificent and endless possibility, love and beauty.”
Lyerka Miller
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“The 1-1 coaching is deeply transformational and life changing,
and worth every cent of my investment—and more!
It’s truly priceless.”
Petra Jungblut
About
I'm Brigitte van Tuijl. Writer, master coach, and author of 9 books. My first book was published by a Dutch publisher in 2009 and still sells today without any promotion. The rest I self-published.
I've been coaching women entrepreneurs for 25+ years, created 50+ online programs, and was one of the first coaches in the Netherlands to work online—back when most coaches still insisted you could only do this work sitting in the same room together.
I only work with a handful of private clients. Because I want to give you my full attention and be available to you whenever you need me ... and still have plenty of time for myself.
A tiny form will pop up where you fill in your name, email, and anything you'd like to share before we meet. That's all.
I'll get back to you within 2 business days to schedule our chat.