private coaching
private coaching
private coaching

Freedom, ease, and inner peace—without working for it

You’ve built a good life.
A solid business or career.
You’re competent, capable, and used to figuring things out.

But something still feels off.

Not dramatically wrong. Just subtly heavy.

Where’s the ease?
Where’s the space to breathe?
Where’s the freedom you thought you’d have by now?

You’ve tried a lot:
mindset work, healing, journaling, spiritual tools, intuition, strategy, discipline, surrender, manifestation…

You keep thinking:
“Maybe I just need to let go more.”
“Maybe I need to trust harder.”

But the harder you try to relax, the more tension there seems to be.
Even surrender feels like another task.

Why nothing has worked

(and why it's not your fault)

Everything you’ve tried—including the most “spiritual” tools, like meditation—has one thing in common:

It was still based on the belief that you had to get yourself free.

That there’s still a better version of you, or a better life, out there somewhere.

But here’s the truth:

Freedom isn’t something you create.

It’s already here—underneath the mind’s constant attempts to manage, improve, and arrive.

When that striving stops, something deeper wakes up.

And life begins to flow in a way it never could when you were trying to “do it right.”

This work reveals the freedom that's already here.

Not through more effort.

But through the end of inner resistance.

This isn't coaching as you know it


There are no goals to chase.
No mindset to fix.
No pressure to improve.

This work doesn’t add anything to your plate.

It removes what was never yours to carry.

You stop trying to manage everything.
You stop working on yourself.
You stop trying to get it right. 

And when that drops?

Clarity arises.
Space opens.
Peace becomes your new baseline—not because you earned it, but because you stopped trying to.

Some of what naturally happens:

💠 Tension begins to fade. You feel calmer. 

💠 You no longer need to figure things out. Clarity just … arises.

💠 The pressure to prove, produce, or perform dissolves.

💠 You stop managing life. You start letting it move.

💠 You finally exhale—and that relaxation becomes your new normal.

💠 Decisions stop feeling like life-or-death. 

💠 Peace and calm don’t come and go. They become home.

💠 Life feels lighter. You feel like yourself again—without trying.

💠 You realize: life is much simpler than you thought. 

“Wow.

Just ... wow.

No words can describe how much lighter and brighter life feels now.

This is what I've been looking for my whole life.

Forever grateful.”

~ S.

This isn’t a temporary shift.

It’s a different way of being.

How we'll work together:

We start with a conversation to see if this coaching is exactly what you need.

If it is, we can begin soon—usually within a week or two.

I don’t work with fixed formats or timelines.

Every person is different.

The right structure reveals itself in our conversation.

You'll receive:


✔️ Two private Zoom calls each month

✔️ Unlimited voice and text support via Voxer

✔️ Recordings of each call

✔️ Custom resources if needed

This coaching is not for you if:

✘ You're looking for a quick fix

✘ You want steps, formulas, or systems

✘ You're looking for an accountability partner

This is for you if you:

✔️ Are ready for a different way of being

✔️ Want real freedom, not another strategy

✔️ You want life—and work—to feel lighter, simpler, more you

If this speaks to you, let's talk. 

No pressure, no strings.

Just a real conversation to see if my coaching is right for you—or not.

Click the button below and answer three simple questions.


I’ll get back to you within two business days to schedule our call.

What clients say:

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“I feel a deep, unshakable peace now, no matter what happens.

I no longer worry about anything. 

Life is effortless.

Business is easy. 

And even when something shitty happens,

I still feel calm and at peace because I deeply know and trust that everything is okay."

 

~ B.

***

"The coaching has been life changing for me.

Everything is different, and I’m deeply grateful.

I can’t describe how gifted Brigitte is.

Her intuition is laser-sharp, and she knows exactly what you need to create deep and lasting transformation.

Working with Brigitte is magical and sublime!"

Marieke Kamerbeek

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"Life is so much brighter now.

I didn't know this level of ease was even possible!"

~ M.

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Brigitte is more than a coach.

She is there when you need it the most and she brings light when you are at your darkest moments and have the most doubts.

She knows her stuff and in working with her you feel deeply supported and seen.”

Vladimíra Neuschlová

***

Wow.

Just ... wow.

No words can describe how much lighter and brighter life feels now.

This is what I've been looking for my whole life.

Forever grateful.”

~ S.

***

“I am living a completely different life now. And it keeps growing and evolving.

Brigitte has helped me step into a new reality of magnificent and endless possibility, love and beauty.”

Lyerka Miller

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“The 1-1 coaching is deeply transformational and life changing,

and worth every cent of my investment—and more!

It’s truly priceless.”

Petra Jungblut

Brigitte van Tuijl

About Brigitte van Tuijl

I’m a writer and master coach for people who’ve built a great business or career—but still feel like something’s missing.

On the outside, life looks solid.
On the inside, you’re tired.

Tired of pressure. 

Of (micro)managing everything. 

Of the sense that if you stop for even a moment, it will all fall apart.

You sense there’s an easier way to live—
a way that feels lighter, freer, more
you.

You’ve had glimpses of that lighter way of being.
But it always slips away again.

That’s where my work comes in.

I help you shift out of the mind—where pressure and tension live—
and back into awareness, the quiet ground where clarity, calm, and freedom already exist.

When you live from awareness instead of the mind, something changes:
your system settles, your stories lose their grip, and you return to a deeper ease and inner peace.

From that place, life gets simple.
Clear.
Effortless.

For almost 25 years, I’ve worked with entrepreneurs, creatives, and leaders who’ve found more clarity, freedom, and ease.

Many wrote books, grew their businesses, and—most importantly—rediscovered space in their days, joy in their work, and a quiet peace that doesn’t depend on circumstances.

I’m also the author of nine books, including Money: The Illusion of Safety, Scarcity, and Self and Awakened Awareness.

Everything I offer rests on one foundation:

Freedom and effortlessness aren’t things you achieve.
They’re already here—when you stop living from the mind.