For women entrepreneurs who have their shit together … and still can't fully relax
You’ve got everything sorted pretty well.
Business is good. Life, too.
Sure, there are some things you’d like to see different, but overall?
It looks good.
BUT.
It doesn’t feel that way.
Something’s missing.
There’s this thing that keeps coming back.
A recurring theme, topic or issue that you can’t get permanently right, despite everything you did.
Maybe it’s always feeling vaguely behind, even when you wrote a book and landed 12 new clients on a Wednesday afternoon.
Or doomscrolling even though it only makes you miserable.
Or finding it hard to relax before your to-do list is empty. (It never is.)
It doesn't matter what keeps coming back.
What matters is that you tried everything to fix it:
mindset work, healings, strategies, coaches, masterminds, spiritual tools, energy work.
And it still. Won't. Budge.
It hurts.
Why can’t you get this right?
What are you still not seeing?
What are you doing wrong?
What’s wrong with you?!
You know you’re capable. Smart.
You have everything it takes to get this thing sorted but no, here it is. AGAIN.
I know all about it.
For me, that one thing that drove me up the wall at times was money.
It went well for a while and bam. There it was again. Worries and stress of not having enough.
But what hurt the most wasn’t even the lack of money itself. (Even though that sucked, too.)
What hurt most was that I couldn’t get it fixed.
And I tried everything.
Everything.
One coach told me I should love myself more. "A lack of self-love leads to a lack of money", she said.
Another told me I should pick one strategy and stick to it. (Fat chance.)
I worked with affirmations.
Chatted with my Higher Self on the regular.
Learned how to make a stellar business plan—before ditching plans and goals completely.
Journaled my ass off and learned 237 ways to shift subconscious beliefs. (More or less. Probably less.)
Everything worked. For a bit. But it never solved the issue permanently.
Why??
I saw others implement the same 6 steps to a 7-figure business and soar. I still bumped up to the same ceiling as ever.
I saw coaches who weren’t nearly as good as I was rake in MUCH more.
So annoying.
Even when money was there I couldn’t deeply relax. There was always a voice whispering that I could be doing more. That I could, should, be further along.
But I wasn’t.
What was still off?!
The sense of security and trust that I’d always be okay didn’t come from finding a secret tool or manifesting trick.
It came from dropping the whole shebang:
The searching. The analyzing. Trying yet another thing I hoped would finally bring me what I longed for—complete and utter inner freedom and deeply trusting money would always be there when I needed it.
Instead of continuing that eternal loop of seeking-hoping-shit-there-we-are-again, I stopped.
I stopped running in that hamster wheel.
And instead of trying to control (or at least influence) what happened, I looked at the urge to fix, to control, to understand.
I noticed that I didn’t create my thoughts and stories.
I didn’t create my feelings and emotions.
They just … arose. And just left again, too.
I dropped into the space underneath that inner turmoil.
And in that space, I found that freedom was already there.
Trust and security, too.
I stopped analyzing what was wrong and how to fix it. (How to fix me.)
My whole system let out a sigh of relief.
And somehow I always knew what to do without having to mull it over.
And nothing fell apart.
Nothing went to shit when I stopped trying to control and micromanage life.
I felt so much lighter.
Like I put down a backpack filled with books and snacks.
(And somehow, feeling lighter seems to be ongoing.)
And I saw that the ‘me’ I thought was so solid and real, actually wasn’t.
That didn’t scare me.
It brought me the exact peace I always looked for.
Money stuff appeared every now and then.
But it was no longer a problem.
It no longer had a hold on me.
The issue was solved … by seeing there was never anything wrong.
Not with me.
Not with what I did.
Such a relief.
Such a deep, deep sense of freedom and inner calm.
The lasting kind.
Even when shit hits the fan.
This is the shift I now guide women entrepreneurs in.
Women just like you—capable, smart, done with the endless self-improving.
And I see what happens when they stop fighting the noise and drop into the space underneath it:
Life feels lighter.
They act without having to yell "you've got this!" in the mirror.
Business and life go on, but the tension, distress and restlessness surrounding it dissolves.
They finally exhale.
Deeply.
Completely.
And that thing they used to struggle with?
For some, it softens enough to no longer be a problem.
For others, it just vanishes.
Either way, it no longer bothers them.
They’re finally at peace.
My coaching isn't your standard set-goals-and-achieve-them work.
On the contrary!
You don’t have to work on yourself or whatever bothers you.
There’s nothing to fix.
Only to drop into what’s already here.
You start to see that there’s nothing to work on … and still, everything gets done.
This work is not for everyone.
I only work with a handful of private clients.
But if you resonate with what you read?
It might be for you.
If you saw yourself while reading, let's talk.
No pitch. No funnel. No "but wait, there's more."
Just a real conversation to see if this is right for you.
You don’t need to prepare a thing. I've heard "I don't even know where to start" more often than I've bought new socks. And I bought a lot of socks.
See you soon?
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What clients say:
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“I feel a deep, unshakable peace now, no matter what happens.
I no longer worry about anything.
Life is effortless.
Business is easy.
And even when something shitty happens,
I still feel calm and at peace because I deeply know and trust that everything is okay."
~ B.
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"The coaching has been life changing for me.
Everything is different, and I’m deeply grateful.
I can’t describe how gifted Brigitte is.
Her intuition is laser-sharp, and she knows exactly what you need to create deep and lasting transformation.
Working with Brigitte is magical and sublime!"
Marieke Kamerbeek
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"Life is so much brighter now.
I didn't know this level of ease was even possible!"
~ M.
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“Brigitte is more than a coach.
She is there when you need it the most and she brings light when you are at your darkest moments and have the most doubts.
She knows her stuff and in working with her you feel deeply supported and seen.”
Vladimíra Neuschlová
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“Wow.
Just ... wow.
No words can describe how much lighter and brighter life feels now.
This is what I've been looking for my whole life.
Forever grateful.”
~ S.
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“I am living a completely different life now. And it keeps growing and evolving.
Brigitte has helped me step into a new reality of magnificent and endless possibility, love and beauty.”
Lyerka Miller
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“The 1-1 coaching is deeply transformational and life changing,
and worth every cent of my investment—and more!
It’s truly priceless.”
Petra Jungblut
About you, me, and some credentials
You're a woman entrepreneur who has her shit together: business is good, life too. You're capable, smart, and good at what you do.
But … something is still missing. You still can’t fully relax.
And likely, there's one thing that keeps bugging you. A pattern that keeps coming back. A ceiling you keep hitting.
A topic, issue or theme that keeps showing up, even though you've done SO much work already:
Mindset. Manifesting. Reading self-help books, joining masterminds, and becoming your next best self a gazillion times … but nothing worked permanently.
Why? You should be able to get this thing sorted!
What are you still missing? What's wrong with you or what you do?!
Nothing.
There’s no need to fix or improve yourself.
In my work, you shift where attention goes. Away from being swept along by thoughts. Towards the space they come from.
From that space, clarity naturally arises. Tension and pressure dissolve. You can toss away your pro-con lists because the right decisions come to you as easy as your next breath.
Business and life keep working—but without added pressure or force. Life feels lighter. Easier. And you realize it can be simpler than you thought.
I'm Brigitte van Tuijl, writer and master coach with 25 years experience. I work with a handful of private clients at a time.
My clients feel deeply seen and leave with lightness, freedom, and the ability to finally relax—without that nagging voice whispering that you could be more productive now.
I'm also the author of 9 books, including Money: The Illusion of Safety, Scarcity, and Self and Awakened Awareness.
A tiny form will pop up where you fill in your name, email, and anything you'd like to share before we meet. That's all.
I’ll contact you within 2 business days to schedule our chat.