For women entrepreneurs who have their shit together … and still can't fully relax
You’ve got everything sorted pretty well.
Business is good. Life, too.
Sure, there are some things you’d like to see different, but overall?
It looks good.
BUT.
It doesn’t feel that way.
Something’s missing.
There’s this thing that keeps coming back.
A recurring theme, topic or issue that you can’t get permanently right, despite everything you did:
Mindset work. Healings. Strategies, plans, coaches. Books and masterminds. Spiritual tools and energy work.
You name it, you tried it.
Maybe that thing that’s still here is a crippling pattern.
Or something’s always off in relationships.
Or it’s a sense of self-doubt that makes everything harder.
It doesn't matter what it is.
What matters is that you tried everything …
And it still. Won’t. Budge.
It hurts.
Why can’t you get this right?
What are you still not seeing?
What are you doing wrong?
What’s wrong with you?!
You know you’re capable. Smart.
You have everything it takes to get this thing sorted but no, here it is. AGAIN.
I know all about it.
For me, that one thing that drove me up the wall at times was money.
It went well for a while and bam. There it was again. Worries and stress of not having enough.
But what hurt the most wasn’t even the lack of money itself. (Even though that sucked, too.)
What hurt most was that I couldn’t get it fixed.
And I tried everything.
Everything.
One coach told me I should work on self-love. A lack of that translated into a lack of money. Another told me I should change my business model and create passive income streams.
I worked on marketing and mindset. Tried numerous strategies and tools. Did TONS of inner work and self-improvement stuff.
Everything worked. For a bit. But it never solved the issue permanently.
Why??
I saw others implement the same 6 steps to a 7-figure business and soar. I still bumped up to the same ceiling as ever.
I saw coaches who weren’t nearly as good as I was make MUCH more.
So annoying.
Even when money was there I couldn’t deeply relax. There was always a voice whispering that I could be doing more. That I could, should, be further along.
But I wasn’t.
What was still off?!
The sense of security and trust that I’d always be okay didn’t come from finding a secret tool or manifesting trick.
It came from dropping the whole shebang:
The searching. The analyzing. Trying yet another thing I hoped would finally bring me what I longed for—complete and utter inner freedom and deeply trusting money would always be there when I needed it.
Instead of continuing that eternal loop of seeking-hoping-shit-there-we-are-again, I stopped.
I stopped running in that hamster wheel.
And instead of trying to control (or at least influence) what happened, I looked at the urge to fix, to control, to understand.
I noticed that I didn’t create my thoughts and stories.
I didn’t create my feelings and emotions.
They just … arose. And just left again, too.
I dropped into the space underneath that inner turmoil.
And in that space, I found that freedom was already there.
Trust and security, too.
The urge to make sense of what was wrong and how to fix it softened.
My whole system relaxed.
Decisions and actions just happened.
No force or trying to figure shit out was needed.
And nothing fell apart.
Nothing went to shit when I stopped trying to control and micromanage life—or at least parts of it.
More and more space and calm clarity appeared.
I didn’t need to create or find it.
I only needed to see that it was already here.
And I saw that the ‘me’ I thought was so solid and real, actually wasn’t.
That didn’t scare me.
It brought me the exact peace I always looked for.
Money stuff appeared every now and then.
But it was no longer a problem.
It no longer had a hold on me.
The issue was solved … by seeing there was never anything wrong.
Not with me.
Not with what I did.
Such a relief.
Such a deep, deep sense of freedom and inner calm.
The lasting kind.
Even when shit hits the fan.
This is the shift I now guide women entrepreneurs in.
Women just like you—capable, smart, done with the endless self-improving.
And I see what happens when they stop fighting the noise and drop into the space underneath it:
Life feels lighter.
Actions spontaneously arise.
Business and life go on, but the tension, distress and restlessness surrounding it dissolves.
They finally exhale.
Deeply.
Completely.
And that thing they used to struggle with?
For some, it softens enough to no longer be a problem.
For others, it just vanishes.
Either way, it no longer bothers them.
They’re finally at peace.
My coaching isn't your standard set-goals-and-achieve-them work.
On the contrary!
You don’t have to work on yourself or whatever bothers you.
There’s nothing to fix.
Only to drop into what’s already here.
We don’t add more work to your already filled plate.
You start to see that there’s nothing to work on … and still, everything gets done.
This work is not for everyone.
I only work with a handful of private clients.
But if you resonate with what you read?
It might be for you.
If you saw yourself while reading, let's talk.
No pitch. No funnel. No "but wait, there's more."
Just a real conversation to see if this is right for you.
See you soon?
I’ll contact you within 2 business days to schedule our chat.
What clients say:
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“I feel a deep, unshakable peace now, no matter what happens.
I no longer worry about anything.
Life is effortless.
Business is easy.
And even when something shitty happens,
I still feel calm and at peace because I deeply know and trust that everything is okay."
~ B.
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"The coaching has been life changing for me.
Everything is different, and I’m deeply grateful.
I can’t describe how gifted Brigitte is.
Her intuition is laser-sharp, and she knows exactly what you need to create deep and lasting transformation.
Working with Brigitte is magical and sublime!"
Marieke Kamerbeek
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"Life is so much brighter now.
I didn't know this level of ease was even possible!"
~ M.
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“Brigitte is more than a coach.
She is there when you need it the most and she brings light when you are at your darkest moments and have the most doubts.
She knows her stuff and in working with her you feel deeply supported and seen.”
Vladimíra Neuschlová
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“Wow.
Just ... wow.
No words can describe how much lighter and brighter life feels now.
This is what I've been looking for my whole life.
Forever grateful.”
~ S.
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“I am living a completely different life now. And it keeps growing and evolving.
Brigitte has helped me step into a new reality of magnificent and endless possibility, love and beauty.”
Lyerka Miller
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“The 1-1 coaching is deeply transformational and life changing,
and worth every cent of my investment—and more!
It’s truly priceless.”
Petra Jungblut
Who I work with
You're a woman entrepreneur who has her shit together: business is good, life too. You're capable, smart, and good at what you do.
But … something is still missing. You still can’t fully relax.
And likely, there's one thing that keeps bugging you. A pattern that keeps coming back. A ceiling you keep hitting. A topic, issue or theme that keeps showing up, even though you've done SO much work already:
Mindset work and business building programs. You've read books, worked with coaches, joined masterminds, played with manifesting techniques … but nothing worked permanently.
Why? You should be able to get this thing sorted! What are you still missing? What's wrong with you or what you do?!
Nothing.
There’s no need to fix or improve yourself.
In my work, you shift where attention goes. Away from being swept along by thoughts. Towards the space they come from.
From that space, clarity naturally arises. Tension and pressure dissolve. Decisions and actions are clear without overthinking or figuring anything out.
Business and life keep working—but without added pressure or force. Life feels lighter. Easier. And you realize it can be simpler than you thought.
I'm Brigitte van Tuijl, writer and master coach with 25 years experience. I work with a handful of private clients at a time.
My clients feel deeply seen and leave with more lightness, freedom, and the ability to finally exhale—even when life is still busy or shit hits the fan.
I'm also the author of 9 books, including Money: The Illusion of Safety, Scarcity, and Self and Awakened Awareness.